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Monday, 13 July 2009

  • STRESS

    What is Stress?

    The emotional and physical strain caused by our responseto pressure from the outside world. Common stress reactions include tension, irritability, inability to concentrate and a variety of physical symptoms that include headache and a fast heartbeat? I do not have such symptoms, but why aint I getting into sleep?

    It is almost impossible to live without stress, and most of us wouldn't want to too... If stress gets out of control, it may harm our health, our relationships with people and refrain us from enjoying life

    Examples of overload situations are common in today's world:

    1. You and your spouse both work full time while you are raising your family. Your parents are retired, in ill health and are independent on your help with shopping and running errands.

    2. You are a single person living alone, and your salary isnt rising as fast as the rate of inflation. It is getting harder each month to pay bill?

    Not a worry as I am not living alone... I am not yet oblige to pay for all bills

    3. You are a divorced parent and share the custody of your children with your former sporse. But the friction between the 2 of you on matters concerning the children is becoming more bitter and more frequent

    Not to worry too, I don't intend to get married too

    4. The expectations and competition at your workplace is becoming fierce. You find youself coming in early, staying late and taking on more work than you can handle

    Other than staying late, I don't mind the others

    Managing stress involves learning about:

    1.  How stress affects the mind and body?

    It affects my sleep, resulted in insomnia

    2. How to identify the warning signs of stress?

    3. How to develop good stress-management techniques?

    Allow me with a guess... Avoid last minute work

    4. When to seek professional help?

    No luxury for professional assistance

    What are the signs of Stress?

    Mental symptoms of STRESS

    Tension, Irritability, Inability to concentrate, Feeling excessively tired, Trouble Sleeping
    Erm, I started off with trouble sleeping, then to feeling excessively tired, followed  by inability to concentrate... Ended off with tension and irritability I guessed

    Physical symptoms of STRESS

    Dry mouth, a pounding heart, Difficulty in breathing, Stomach upset, Frequent urination, Sweating palms, Tight muscles that may cause pain and trembling

     

    How to deal/combat with stress?

    One method of stress management is called the TARP method, and it has been proven effective for many. TARP method offers a form of protection, protection against the distressing and sometimes harmful effects of stress

    T is for TUNE IN: Get the habit of noticing early signs of stress

    A is for ANALYSE: Think about the source or causes of your stress

    R is for RESPOND: Deal with cause of your stress, and its effect on you

    P is for PREVENT: Develop good stress-reduction habits for a healthier lifestyle

    How-to Information:

    1. Scan yourself for physical signs of stress, starting with your head and working down. For e.g.

    Do you have muscle tension?

    Do you have sweaty palms?

    Do you have rapid breathing or rapid pulse?

    2. Scan your behaviors for signs of stress. For e.g.

    Are you pacing or fidgeting?

    Is your voice too tense, too loud or too quiet?

     

Tuesday, 07 July 2009

  • 07 July 2009

    Things are kind of bad, and seriously, did wonder if I will pull thru this hardship. Economy is bad, things are expensive, and life is never easy for me. Been struggling for the last 3-4 years. I am getting so so tired. Feel like shutting down soon. Things arent turning any better, still.

    Did I make a wrong move in leaving Barwil? Deep in thoughts. I did feel like taking a short break.

    The cheerful and happy-go-lucky me was gone for good. Life used to be fun and entertaining, before I entered into the workforce. However, things began to change and and luck seemed not to be catching up on me. Been spending a lot recently on foods, formal wear, shoes, cab fare...

    The best thing of the month is: I had a sumptuous dinner at Ichiban Sushi last night. Thanks:)

    I feel so much like tearing just now. However, I managed to hold my tears and moved on with my footsteps. I have to be strong, if I wish not to be hurt. And I do need to understand the importancy of relying and trusting on my capabilities. I believed I will pull through this tough period, as long as I am not alone, and still, with the support of some friends. Shouldn't have resented or blamed others for my own things. I knew I was bad. But some times, I just wanted to vent my anger and shout the hell out of me.

    Life is hard. People are mean. Flowers wilt. People die. What's the true meanings in living life?

Monday, 08 June 2009

  • 2nd June 2009

     

    I have been so so so busy! I am tied up with Marketing project, HR project, events, work, meeting up with some friends! At last, I have some time to spare out for a blog entry!

    1st present received: An eeyore cup from boss, a lunch treat at Thai Expresssss! In return, Kinder Surprise for her... She was smiling so sweet when she received that:)

    2nd present received: A birthday cake from company, $30 Isetan voucher & birthday card

    3rd present received: A bunch of roses and tulips freshly delivered to my company!:)

    4th present received: 20 slices of mini-sized assorted cakes, together with my favorite, Chocolate Exotic from Four Leaves, if I am not wrong! Not over yet wor! 2nd year I am receiving the Forever friend bear from this good friend of mine, together with a card, a note, and a bottle of stars (small bottle with 21 real tiny mini stars in it) for my 21st birthday! It was really a surprise for me, and guessed what, I received that yesterday only! Everything is so fresh in my mind! He is really a good, true, honest, cute buddy. Have known this chap for near to 2 years le... or 3 years ah! Our friendship seems like more than 3 years... ahahahahaaaa...! Anyways, he brought me a cute white fury doggie and a tigger as gifts before too!!!

    It is soon my turn to crack my mind on what to buy for this friend le:) And also, a few babes (we are all turning into 21-year-old this year)

    May our friendship blossoms

Thursday, 21 May 2009

  • 21st birthday

     

    I am turning 21, soon! Another 10 more days or so...

    I am turning into an adult soon, under law of Singapore.
    I am soooo soooo looking forward to it.

    I have several wishes in mind... hopefully, they all come true. These wishes are achievable and realistic ones alright...

    I will change, and definitely, I will change to a better person.

    I am going to control my hot-temper, my gluttonous, my emotions and many mores... I hate myself sometimes, really. I do understand that it is rather stupid, to ponder over and over on unchangeable facts.

    At this hour, 8.33pm, 21 May 2009, Thursday, I am still stucked in my workplace. From 8am all the way this minute, I am awake. I am getting weak, tired and exhausted. I am craving for some sleeps, ample rest, endless beauty sleeps etc.

    I have posted some real stupid words on my msn today.

    To receive a slice of cake from a friend, my little wish for my 21st birthday.

    I am not asking for much... But it doesn't seems an easy task too... No worries, this message is for friends that care...
    Loves, RAC

Tuesday, 12 May 2009

  • Insomnia again!!! O-M-F-G

     

    No lies:X I had another round of insomnia again, last night! WTF

    High chances I won't be turning up for lesson tonight, looking at my current condition. I am half-dead. I need a new bed, urgently! I am going to shop for my bed tonight, listen good! Damn you bed bugs! I am craving for my beauty sleep, so much!

    I have thought it through. Not gonna waste my weekends with stupid bums! I rather spend it alone, with my bears, with my lappy, with my bed, with my tv, with my own stuffs... wth. I am pretty tired with answering questions, arguing, quarreling, reasoning, boredom, spend $ for the sake of spending etc... I have been pretty childish and inmature nowadays, perhaps of the environment I am in right now bah! Trust it, the old RAC will be back, once she has achieved something in life.

    Everyday is a repetitive day. I am doing nth to improve myself. That's pretty bad and disappointing.

    I had missed one of the flora lesson, last week. Anyways, I am putting it on hold. I am putting it a stop, period. I ain't allowing myself to lose focus this time. It is a must, for me to put my heart, soul, baku baku ninja ninja eeyore eeyore jiangou jiangou into my studies!

    Love RAC

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